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	<title>Comments on: Negative Thoughts on Pursuing Positivity</title>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
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		<description>I think a lot of things about pursuing happiness does require acceptance of some really shitty things, but I also think that pursuing happiness requires absolute rejection of some really shitty things.

Cindy and I know people who just love to bitch and complain about every little thing. It&#039;s like they&#039;re going out of their way to be unhappy about the most insanely insignificant things. We would love for these people to try to see things differently, but it&#039;s a lot like hoarders. So many of them don&#039;t consider what they do hoarding, or they just don&#039;t see all the trash and filth. They don&#039;t smell the dog shit or cat shit. They&#039;re used to it. And when you&#039;re used to being a miserable human being, you don&#039;t see that, hey, you might be a miserable human being.

Maybe one day, they&#039;ll choose to work harder on seeing things differently, but they&#039;re in charge of their own timing, right? The best you can hope for is that someday they will make that choice, and they&#039;ll look to you as an example, and for inspiration.

This reminds me of Ebenezer Scrooge because he had the exact opposite problem with happiness, with everyone being cheery.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a lot of things about pursuing happiness does require acceptance of some really shitty things, but I also think that pursuing happiness requires absolute rejection of some really shitty things.</p>
<p>Cindy and I know people who just love to bitch and complain about every little thing. It&#8217;s like they&#8217;re going out of their way to be unhappy about the most insanely insignificant things. We would love for these people to try to see things differently, but it&#8217;s a lot like hoarders. So many of them don&#8217;t consider what they do hoarding, or they just don&#8217;t see all the trash and filth. They don&#8217;t smell the dog shit or cat shit. They&#8217;re used to it. And when you&#8217;re used to being a miserable human being, you don&#8217;t see that, hey, you might be a miserable human being.</p>
<p>Maybe one day, they&#8217;ll choose to work harder on seeing things differently, but they&#8217;re in charge of their own timing, right? The best you can hope for is that someday they will make that choice, and they&#8217;ll look to you as an example, and for inspiration.</p>
<p>This reminds me of Ebenezer Scrooge because he had the exact opposite problem with happiness, with everyone being cheery.</p>
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